I hear what you say, but what are you telling me? : (Record no. 5441)

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fixed length control field 010518s2001 cau b 001 0 eng
010 ## - LIBRARY OF CONGRESS CONTROL NUMBER
LC control number 2001003015
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Language of cataloging eng
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020 ## - INTERNATIONAL STANDARD BOOK NUMBER
International Standard Book Number 0787957097 (alk. paper)
020 ## - INTERNATIONAL STANDARD BOOK NUMBER
International Standard Book Number 9780787957094 (alk. paper)
035 ## - SYSTEM CONTROL NUMBER
System control number (OCoLC)47050216
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050 00 - LIBRARY OF CONGRESS CALL NUMBER
Classification number BF637.N66
Item number M34 2001
082 00 - DEWEY DECIMAL CLASSIFICATION NUMBER
Classification number 153.6/9
Edition number 21
100 1# - MAIN ENTRY--PERSONAL NAME
Personal name Madonik, Barbara G.
245 10 - TITLE STATEMENT
Title I hear what you say, but what are you telling me? :
Remainder of title the strategic use of nonverbal communication in mediation /
Statement of responsibility, etc. Barbara G. Madonik.
260 ## - PUBLICATION, DISTRIBUTION, ETC.
Place of publication, distribution, etc. San Francisco, CA :
Name of publisher, distributor, etc. Jossey-Bass,
Date of publication, distribution, etc. c2001.
300 ## - PHYSICAL DESCRIPTION
Extent xxix, 287 p. ;
Dimensions 24 cm.
504 ## - BIBLIOGRAPHY, ETC. NOTE
Bibliography, etc. note Includes bibliographical references (p. 267-273) and index.
505 0# - FORMATTED CONTENTS NOTE
Formatted contents note Essential definitions and practical applications -- Essential definitions: terms and tools -- Systems --Cues -- Language -- Paralanguage -- Levels of awareness -- Space --Touch -- Time -- Objects -- Symbolism -- Practical applications: representational systems -- Eye cues and patterns -- Physical cues and patterns -- Language cues and patterns -- Paralanguage cues and patterns -- Deciding on a system -- Practical applications: general patterns and techniques -- Understanding messages in patterns of communication -- Identifying individuals' cues and patterns -- Applying nonverbal techniques during mediation -- Seven steps to getting results -- Step 1: be prepared -- Planning ahead -- Having useful equipment on hand -- Gathering facts -- Step 2 : maximizing the initial telephone contact -- Physical factors in telephone communication -- Conversation management -- Paralanguage nuances -- Questioning -- Step 3: managing the environment -- Examining the power balance -- Providing for safety -- Establishing comfort -- Conveying respect -- Step 4: assessing thee parties -- Knowing yourself -- Tracking the big picture -- Tracking detailed information -- Identifying action triggers -- Identifying working frameworks -- Step 5: building rapport -- Engaging the parties -- Adjusting your responsiveness -- Changing communication in the room -- Configuring productive work units -- Step 6: triggering action -- Coming face-to-face with the real issues -- Enabling the parties to build momentum -- Dealing with derailments -- Encouraging physical movement to change mental positions -- Step 7: bringing closure -- Helping parties make productive decisions -- Presenting the offer in a compelling way -- Guarding against buyer's remorse -- Guiding the parties to craft the final agreement jointly -- Helping parties leave the conflict behind.
520 ## - SUMMARY, ETC.
Summary, etc. It has been estimated that less than twenty percent of all human communication is expressed through words. This means that in order to get to the heart of what people are really saying we must have the ability to read the subtext of nonverbal communication. Yet mediators often lack the skills they need to analyze and utilize the rich meaning that is found in nonverbal communication. This step-by-step handbook teaches you how to tune all your senses into what is happening with parties and counsel during mediation and thereby greatly increase your ability to prepare for and facilitate the overall process.
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650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM
Topical term or geographic name entry element Body language.
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Topical term or geographic name entry element Nonverbal communication.
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Topical term or geographic name entry element Interpersonal communication.
650 #0 - SUBJECT ADDED ENTRY--TOPICAL TERM
Topical term or geographic name entry element Negotiation.
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Materials specified Contributor biographical information
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Materials specified Publisher description
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Materials specified Table of contents
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Withdrawn status Lost status Source of classification or shelving scheme Damaged status Not for loan Home library Current library Date acquired Total Checkouts Full call number Barcode Date last seen Copy number Price effective from Koha item type Public note
          Female Library Female Library 04/18/2021   BF637 .N66 M34 2001 51952000102069 04/15/2021 1 04/15/2021 Books STACKS
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